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Seeing Out Summer with The Good Life Experience


At the beginning of September, Pedlars very kindly invited myself and D back to The Good Life Experience, a three day festival held on the Hawarden Estate in North Wales that has very quickly become my favourite weekend of the year. 

It was founded by four friends; Charlie and Caroline Gladstone, Cerys Matthews and her husband Steve Abbott. Four years ago they set about creating a festival that reflected the common desire to return to a simpler way of life, the kind of life our parents and grandparents lived where good times didn't depend on money and excess, where we made things and grew things and past times didn't revolve around high resolution screens, but around each other. The festival is a celebration of food, music, books and crafts people - all the good things in life. 


We arrived to find the same glorious blue sky that greeted us last year, but a week of rain the the lead up to the weekend also meant a great deal of mud - and it was all the more fun for it! We put up our tent to the sound of music in the distance and I could hardly contain my excitement. I felt as though I'd come home when we arrived last year, and knowing what to expect made me even more eager to get in and immerse myself in the joy of it all once more.



Yet again, the only negative I can draw from the whole weekend is that you could do with a time-turner; there's so much happening that you couldn't possibly see everything, and choosing which things to miss is such a tough decision to make.

We perused the line-up with some lunch from Claw who we discovered last year and were hoping would be back again. They serve a whole host of crab and seafood goodness, and we went for the crab on fries which is a rather inspired combination.    



We decided first to see Micheal Rosen. I'd been wondering which bit of the weekend would make me cry this year, and it turns out this was it. 

Micheal Rosen is of course famous for 'We're Going on A Bear Hunt' and he saved this performance till the very end. Before that though, he took us on an animated and completely hilarious journey through his childhood, all the time looking just like the Quentin Blake illustration of himself. We heard about his inability to hear the word 'bedtime,' how heading to the bathroom meant it was time to muck about and felt his Dad's fury after finding the top of the toothpaste buried inside his shaving soap. His explanation? Pirates, of course.  


It was really quite overwhelming to watch the command he had over his audience - children and adults alike were repeating his lines back to him, and gasping with horror when his mum discovered his midnight chocolate cake feast. Such a wonderful poet and performer, and we both feel quite honoured to have watched, with tears rolling down our cheeks, him doing his thing. 

Next it was over to the Campfire cooking stage for something else that I found rather overwhelming. As you might remember from my recent post about podcasts, I've recently fallen in love with Harry Eastwood and her ethos on meat. 

Listening to her talking about honouring and savouring each piece of meat you eat was completely inspiring and cemented our feelings about lessening the quantity and upping the quality of the meat we choose to eat. I had one of those joyous moments where I want to jump up and down and bestow thanks on a person for articulating the jumble of feelings that reside in my head. Also, by following the simple tips gleaned from her talk we've since cooked the best steak we've ever had! 



Just look at my happy little face! It's mostly because of Harry and her demo, a little bit because of the table of foraged mushrooms next to me, and quite a lot because of the lavender soda and spiced rum I'm clutching. I spotted the Lurvill's Delight stand at about 300 paces - lavender and rum are two of my most favourite flavours, and they combined to make the most beautiful (and refined sugar free) riff on a 'dark and stormy' - I may have had more than one. 





Both Makers Row and The Marketplace were bigger and better than last year, with some of the most talented craftspeople sharing their skills and the most incredible wares for sale. D had an excellent time selecting a new beard oil from Old Faithful and I spent a considerable time stroking some beautiful knitted baby clothes from Mabli. Most of the purveyors are local and it's a real celebration of Welsh makers! 

We didn't manage to get booked into any workshops this year, but watching people creating things with their hands, sometimes for the first time, was marvellous. Parents and children made screen prints together, arrows were sharpened and leather punched. This isn't craft in the toilet roll and sticky back plastic sense, this is crafting in the true sense of the word, making something real and tangible using your hands. I love to think that for some of the children, and maybe some of their parents, that this weekend might unearth a passion that will stay with them for the rest of their lives.  









The festival site takes on a whole new magic as the sun goes down. The camp fires are lit, and the music turned up. Children get wrapped up a little bit more, eyes wide with the delight of a late night and a hot chocolate and 'yes you can have one more marshmallow' or they're tucked in to wagons adorned with fairy lights to sleep while the rest of the family carry on the party.

We headed back to the campfire cooking stage for Tom Herbert's book launch which was absolutely inspired! After chatting to Tom, and getting a copy of his new book Do Wild Baking - Food Fire and Good Times signed with the dedication 'Bake Together Forever' we hung it up over the camp fire to 'cold smoke,' to infuse it with the wonderful smell of the smouldering fire.

It's well known that the sense of smell evokes a stronger emotional response than any of the other four, and flicking through the smokey pages immediately transports me back to that night, full of inspiration and memory and the reminder to get outdoors and cook.





As we sat huddled around the smouldering fire, drinking beer, inhaling the scent of smoke now tucked within the pages, watching muddy dogs fighting over beef bones and scraps from the days cooking, I had felt the exact same sense of belonging as last year. There's something tribal about it, a sense of camaraderie and shared joy that makes everyone feel like instant friends. 





On Sunday morning, after a breakfast of bacon and fried duck egg sandwiches, I challenged D to a coffee-off. Allpress coffee were teaching people how to make espresso based coffees, and ever the competitors we decided to show off a bit!  



We decided diplomatically that mine looked better, but D's tasted better - so as ever we make a pretty good team. 


We then headed to a talk with Harry Eastwood and Felicity Cloake, guardian columnist and author of four recipe books. They both have such a passion for food, and a fascinating way with words which made their talk utterly compelling. From cycling round France and inhaling the bread basket to a comparison between the compulsive nature of both Mills and Boon novels and a bag of Wotzits, the two of them together sparked an idea in me that perhaps food might play a bigger part in my life than I ever imagined.  


Next up - just to add to the layers of delicious overwhelm now piling up on top of me we headed back to the campfire to watch Gill Meller (long standing fantasy love interest of mine) cook Mussels Eclade - or, mussels cooked with fire. The plan was to arrange the mussels, opening down, on a large piece of wood, cover them with pine needles, set the needles on fire and have the heat and smoke cook the seafood to perfection. However - the lovingly collected pine needles had somehow gone astray, so hay was employed instead and the result was wonderful, sweet, juicy and perfectly smokey mussels.



It was with very heavy hearts that we packed up the tent and headed home. I can't fully express how being here makes me feel. I think I said last year that walking into The Good Life Experience was like looking at the inside of my head laid out infront of me and that was completely true again this year. If you could give physicality to the emotion of joy - then this weekend nails it, and I haven't even mentioned that everywhere you look there's a dog to make friends with too.



It's something really really special - every single moment of it is so felicitous that it all feels like such a celebration. Every person, whether they're a chef or a maker is so passionate about what they do that you can help but be infected by that same passion too. What I find so wonderful is that everything is aimed at adults and children alike, and the utter joy of making something with your hands can be seen everywhere, from children who have never felt so proud, to adults who had forgotten what that feeling is like.

So, as we all fully embrace Autumn and say goodbye to summer for another year, lets raise a glass and chant: Here's to campfires, here's to rum, here's to finding a double pronged marshmallow stick and singeing your pigtails. Here's to setting up a make believe sweetcorn stand, here's to muddy dogs and muddy pyjamas. Here's to steak, to smoke and to going on a bear hunt. Here's to making it with your hands, to rolling down hills and getting drunk on fresh air. Here's to hiding the top of the toothpaste, here's to infusing books with memories and toasting them with ale. Here's to wellies, here's to family, here's to yoga and fire and music and baking and passion and mussels and stories and crying because you love it... 

Here's to The Good Life.  




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30 Before 30: My Year Long Bucket List


I always was pretty driven by food. 

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On Sunday morning, I woke to the sound of the kettle boiling and tin foil rustling in the kitchen downstairs. Most people might have been expecting a cup of tea and breakfast in bed, but I knew differently - my husband traditionally wraps every present he buys me in tin foil, ever since Smithy's proclamation of 'you just scrunch and go' in the Gavin and Stacy Christmas Special made us laugh years ago.

He came upstairs a few minutes later, with a cup of tea and a handful of cards and presents (two of which came wrapped in foil!) I opened a new backpack, some notebooks, a voucher for the best ever plant centre, the cutest little pin badge from Oh No Rachio and Harry Eastwood's new book which I've been coveting for a while. D also bought me a monthly subscription to the Cocoa Runners chocolate tasting club which is super exciting as we've been buying more high quality chocolate in the last few months and this looks like a great way to try some of the best bars!

The rest of the day was spent with my family at Snape Maltings in Suffolk at the annual Aldeburgh Food Festival which we've been to for the past seven years. It always falls around my birthday and for the last two years we've gone on my birthday itself which always makes it a little more special (and means a few extra treats!)

This birthday is an odd one for me. Usually the passing of time and my increasing age doesn't bother me in the slightest, but I feel a bit different this year. Not 'bothered' exactly, but aware. Aware that this is the last year of my twenties, and that to be thirty will in some way mark the end of my youth. I remember my parents being thirty, and I suppose I expected to have children myself by the time I got to the end of my third decade. My Mum is 28 in this photo, and I was 4.

(I think we can all agree that the duffle coat is quite excellent, and I'm pretty sure Mum still has those pink gloves somewhere!)



Of course, we still have a year in which to make that happen, and me rational brain knows it really doesn't matter when or how we become parents, but it's funny how I feel like its some sort of deadline. With that feeling in mind, I thought it might me helpful to set myself some goals that are separate from those things in my life I can't control, to ensure I make the most of this final year of being twenty-something! I've written a list of thirty things to do before I'm thirty. Some of them are big things that will take some planning and commitment, and some of them are simple things that I've been meaning to do forever and am determined to finally tick off!

So here goes, thirty things to do before I turn thirty. (Just a warning - it's rather long so you might want to grab some snacks at this point)

1: Run 10k

I used to love running, and would easily run 5k in the evening as a way to switch off after work. When I hurt my back though I couldn't do anything that caused any sort of impact and my general fitness pretty quickly tailed off! Now I've changed jobs and started strengthening my back with lots of yoga and pilates I can finally run and actually enjoy it again! I'm slowly working my way back up to 5k, but I'd love to be able to run a full ten kilometres.

2. Eat a cinnamon bun in Sweden

Unless Sweden has a sudden cinnamon shortage, this one should be super easy as we're off to Stockholm for a few days next month and I can't blooming wait - we've never been on a plane together so we're super excited for our first little adventure abroad.

3. Finish decorating the house

We're slowly working our way through the mammoth task that is decorating our house, and the aim of the game is to be totally finished, including the kitchen and bathroom, by this time next year! We'll hopefully have the rest of the house done well before then, but obviously the kitchen and bathroom are going to be rather more pricey so we're allowing ourselves a little longer for those.

4. Write a paid blog post.

I've been blogging for a long time now, and I've been lucky enough to be sent some lovely things and be invited to some wonderful events because of it, but I'm yet to actually earn any money. I feel a bit, icky, talking about money but I would love to start doing some paid content so that I can eventually spend more time working on The Salted Tail and start to turn it into a real life magazine!

5. Drive a fast car

This is fairly self explanatory - I want to get safely strapped in to a crazy fast car and drive as fast as I can around a track!

6. Be self sufficient in bread

We've recently stopped buying meat from the supermarket, and next on the list is bread. We really don't buy that much supermarket bread anyway, but the aim is to make it all at home, save for the odd artisan loaf if something catches our eye! The first step will be to revive my sourdough starter 'Herbert' who has been hibernating in the fridge for quite some time now!

7. Wear a completely DIY outfit

Sewing clothes is something that's always fascinated me - turning a two dimensional piece of fabric into a real life item of clothing is just so magical. I've made a few bits in the past, some baby bloomers and fancy dress costumes but never anything I've regularly worn. I bought a couple of Tilly and The Buttons patterns at The Great British Sewing Bee Live last week though so I think they'll be my starting point.

8. Write a recipe book in November

This is a challenge D set me inspired by NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) where participants are challenged to write a 50,000 word novel during the month of November. D has challenged me to write not a novel, but a recipe book. So, I'll hopefully be testing and writing a recipe a day throughout November, and (with any luck) I might share it all with you too!

9: See a West End Show

In my nearly three decades, I have only seen three West End shows: Starlight Express, Matilda and The Cursed Child. I think it's high time I added another to the list - I've got my eye on The Lion King

10: Go on a yoga retreat or do some yoga teaching training

I wouldn't even say I love yoga, it goes deeper than that. I need it in my life in order to function, and when I let it slip out of my routine I definitely know about it. Unfortunately it's not always that easy to fit a class into my week and I feel like I need to delve a bit further than my current home practice...watch this space for that!

11: Drink homemade kombucha everyday

I love kombucha, and it's one of the could-be-faddy health crazes that I've actually got on board with. However, at around £3 a bottle its really not cheap and I'm told it's really easy to make at home. My sister bought me a book all about it for my birthday so expect a bubbling jar of fermenting tea to appear in my kitchen any day now!

12: Learn to properly blow dry my hair

This one sounds simple. It's not! If anyone has any must have tools to get a salon-esq blow dry without getting a round brush caught in your hair, completely numb arms or such a sweaty face that you need another shower, do please let me know!

13: Go to an abattoir

I've been interested in the welfare of the meat I buy and eat for a long time, and since watching Jamie's Italian Escape years ago when he realised that if he was prepared to eat an animal he should really be prepared to kill it, I've felt the need to see the process of killing an animal for food right through from beginning to end. I don't think it will change my opinion on eating meat but I feel like it's something I want to witness. There are a couple of interesting articles about other peoples experiences of visiting abattoirs here and here

14: Go hunting or fishing

On a similar note to number 13, I'd like to complete the whole circle myself. I'm not suggesting that I'd like to go and kill a cow and butcher it, more go hunting for pheasants or fishing for fish to eat. Again - if I'm prepared to eat an animal, I think I should prepared to carry out the whole process myself. I've plucked and gutted various game birds before, but haven't ever taken the life of an animal in order to eat it and I just feel it's something I need to do in order to face up to what it really means to eat something that was once living.

15: Visit Kew Gardens

Ah, a nice, simple, easy to achieve one! It always looks lovely there, and I cant get enough of plants, so it's on the list!

16: Go foraging

I've picked my fair share of blackberries in the past, but that's pretty much where my foraging knowledge ends. I remember once a friend of ours finding cob nuts while we were out walking and thinking they were the most delicious thing ever, but I don't think I've ever eaten them since. I'd love to know more about which bits of hedgerow are edible, and maybe experiment with some natural dye techniques too!

17: Watch the sun rise over the sea

Pretty self explanatory, and requiring nothing but the willpower to actually get out of bed early enough!

18: Finish something knitted

I had some knitting lessons earlier this year which I loved, and I immediately bought wool and patterns and needles and had grand plans to knit all sorts of things. Alas, after knitting the world's most simple hat, I've done nothing more about it so I must get the needles out again!

19: Get dance lessons

I've been wanting to get ballet lessons for ages and I've decided this is the year!

20: Do some ceramics

I used to live in the ceramics studio while I was at uni, and I haven't really done any since. A couple of new places that run classes have opened up in Norwich recently and once I've been inducted I'll be able to go to their open studio sessions. If nothing else, at least I'll be able to make some planters for all the houseplants that keep finding their way into the house!  

21: Go to Ardingly Antiques Market

Every time I see someone posting that they're at Ardingly Antiques Market I have a serious 'fear of missing out' situation. It always look so good and we've never actually organised ourselves enough to get there - again, this is the year!

22: Cook an entire meal over an open fire

We have a fire pit but we've never really used it. Prompted by Tom Herbert's new book, and all the amazing campfire cooking we watched a couple of weekends ago at The Good Life Experience I'm feeling inspired to make the most of our outdoor space and cook something beyond the usual barbecue fare.

23: Go gleaning

Gleaning caught my attention after it was discussed on Jamie and Jimmy's Friday night feast. In essence it's collecting surplus crops from fields after the main harvest has been done, thus collecting perfectly good, edible and nutritious food for charities who then distribute it to people in need. The amount of produce rejected by supermarkets is absolutely shocking so this is something I definitely want to get involved with. You can read more here.

24: Sleep outside for charity

On a similar note, I have plans to do the Sleep-Out next year in aid of the Benjamin Foundation.

25: Set up a little free library

Ever since I wrote this post about little free libraries I've wanted to start one. I think it's such a great idea, a way of sharing the books you love, creating a community and also finding new books to read. We have a really large front garden that we could definitely set one up in, and lots of books that are destined for a car-boot sale but that could be just as easily used to start a little library. I love the idea of a mini kids-height library too.

26: Hold a conversation in Italian

I've been saying I'm going to learn Italian for years. I'd love to take a class but to begin with I'm going to use the Duolingo app to try and grasp the basics. My knowledge so far is based on Jamie Oliver's Italian exploits so I know a few herbs and how to say thank you - but thats about it! (This is also the third mention of Jamie Oliver in this list - do you think I've got a problem?)

27: Go wine tasting

Apart from knowing that I quite like Rioja, and that the white zinfandel I used to drink at uni now tastes more like melted ice pops, I don't really know anything about wine. Given that we've really got into coffee tasting, and more recently chocolate, wine seems the next logical step.

28: Do a gallery trip on my own

I've always been really happy in my own company, and I think there's something lovely about visiting somewhere completely on your own and at your own pace. I'm planning to go down to London, maybe overnight if I'm feeling extra indulgent but probably just for the day, to wander round some galleries, take some photos and probably spend a bit too long in Papersmiths.

29: Visit Borough Market

Although in London, this one won't be a solo mission because D would never forgive me if I went without him!

30: Explore a new UK city

We're a bit guilty of going back to places we know we like so I'd definitely like to explore somewhere new in the nest year. I'm thinking that either Bristol or Bath look like good choices - what do you reckon? Is your home-city a must visit?

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Phew! There we have it, 30 things to accomplish before my 30th birthday. If you've made it this far then congratulations, it was a long one! Who knows what else what else we might get up to in the next year, time will indeed tell!  




  


My Biggest Blogtacular Takeaways


A few weeks ago I wrote a post about my goals for this years Blogtacular, the biggest and best blogging conference in the country (and quite possibly the world.) This was going to be my second time at the conference, and I was really excited to be able to go to the pre-conference party at West Elm this year too.

As expected, Blogtacular was exactly the creative confidence boost I needed, and as well as catching up with some friends from last year and meeting some people I've got to know online in real life, I also met so many new people which is one of the best things about the event as a whole. I think working from home in any sense can be really lonely, so meeting people and having real life conversations is a huge thing, especially when everyone just gets it when you explain what you do!


For me, the weekend began on Friday evening at West Elm on Tottenham Court Road. I'm not always the most confident when it comes to introducing myself and talking about what I do in person, I could definitely be described as a webtrovert (reserved in real life and much more confident online!) Given that I've been feeling much more at ease with what it is I do and had my introduction nailed I found it so much easier this year to throw myself into talking to people (the wine may have helped a just a little.) The party was a great opportunity to catch up with people and also become familiar with new faces so that by Saturday morning when the main even kicked off I didn't feel like I'd arrived at school on the second day of term when everyone had already made friends the day before!


As well as the wine, window shopping and casual conversation, we also sat down for some round table discussions about various topics. I joined the instragram chat which was chaired by Katy English. It was so refreshing to sit amongst a group of people, some with 300 followers, some with over 15,000 and realise that everyone has the same issues - the algorithm, the lack of community, being followed fake accounts and online legging shops and above all, absolutely loving what we're all sharing but feeling a bit disillusioned with it all. The over riding feeling - and one that I totally agree with, was that all we can do is keep doing what we really love, only posting what is a true reflection of us and not what we think we get us more likes and followers because thats just not sustainable - or much fun! 


At eight o' clock the following morning, I set off for the main event. Over an amazing breakfast, I began to make final decisions about which workshops to attend. The day opened and closed with a keynote, with three workshop slots in between. I found it even tougher to decide this year, but in the end settled for Kayte Ferris of Simple and Seasons' Marketing Session, followed by a session on Finding Your Niche led my Mollie Makes editor Cath Dean, and finishing with a session on Self Doubt led by Sas Petherick.

You may remember that a few weeks ago I posted my entry for the competition Blogtacular and West Elm were running for conference attendees. Before the opening keynote, the winner of the most coveted £2000 prize was announced and I was beyond excited and grateful, and a little emotional to find I had won a runner up prize of £250 to spend in West Elm! The overall, and very deserving winner was Hester of Hester's Handmade Home who's miniature room entry was just inspired, and Shahira from Afro Glory also won a £250 runner up prize to make over her home studio space. This in itself totally squashed any feelings of self doubt that were still milling about in my head - to get a bit of recognition for something I love doing was the best feeling. Plus - £250!! I'm so excited to decide what to buy and to get going with our living room makeover!



I found both Kayte and Cath's workshops incredibly useful from a blogging and business perspective.
Lots of the topics that Kayte covered I had come across, and maybe even attempted to implement in the past but nobody had ever explained specific aspects of marketing so clearly before. Since the conference I've been able to really define my audience and have a much clearer idea of where I'm heading! Maybe it was all the sea related references but since thinking about the content I'm creating in terms of 'ports' and 'anchors' I'm finding it all so much more exciting. I've even started putting together an email newsletter as an extension to what I'm doing on the blog - so stay tuned for that in the next few weeks - there will be a sign-up form popping up soon.


The insights gleaned from Sas' self doubt session have stayed with me in other areas of my life too. We talked a lot about why we procrastinate, why we're not as productive as we'd like to be and why we waste time scrolling and channel hopping and making endless cups of tea. It turns out that the reason was the same for pretty much everyone in the room - we revert to these behaviours because they're safe. Nobody can judge us based on what we look at on instagram, or if we choose to spend the afternoon watching The Pioneer Woman instead of putting ourselves out there online. As soon as we feel like there might be a risk, like we might be seen or judged - it's so much safer to run back to the 'island of self doubt' which is equipped with Netflix, blankets, comfy slippers, tea and chocolates. Sounds lovely doesn't it, but spending time here doesn't actually help us progress in the direction we want to be heading. Of course, sometimes tea and rubbish TV is exactly what we need - but a lot of the time we use these things to hide from putting ourselves out there. For me, I realised that I specifically avoid doing things because I don't feel they match up to other peoples expectations of what it means to be successful - so I'm likely to place more importance on mowing the lawn, hoovering, or some other household thing because from that looks productive from the outside; keeping up with those things is what I think means I'm doing ok! There will be more to come about Sas' session in the next few days - she set us all some homework and I'm going to be writing about how that went for me.


So, what were my biggest takeaways at the end of this beautiful day?

First - I like my coffee hot!

There was a lot of talk over the two days about capturing our lives on Instagram. One conversation in particular was about how often people drink cold coffee because it often comes before the food they've ordered and they can't drink it until they've taken the perfect cafe-table-flatly. Not me! Yes, I often have a quick rearrange of plates and glasses and take a couple of photos (my most recent post on Instagram is the perfect example) and as one of my husband's main hobbies is coffee (both making it at home and hunting out the best places) it features in my feed a lot because it features in my life a lot! However, it's not so important to me to get the perfect photo that I'm willing to drink it cold - my Instagram feed is dictated by my life, not the other way around!


Secondly - I need to write for my readers!

Both Kayte and Cath's sessions were heavily focused on finding your audience and both talked about coming up with 'reader personas.' This is something I've sort of done before but I've never actually been specific enough to give my 'readers' names and properly flesh out their personalities. I spent some time working on this the week after the conference and it's helped so much, not only in deciding what posts will work but how much detail to go into within each. So, when writing I can think - do all three of my readers know what 'reduce by a third' means? Have they all mastered backstitch already or do I need to go into more specific detail? Of course, the answers to the questions are all inside my head, but it's really helpful to have three different people of varying abilities in mind when writing rather than just thinking that I know what I mean so surely everyone else must do to?

Thirdly - Glasses are deceptive!

Apparently I look very different with my glasses on! In my profile picture across all the platforms I use, I'm wearing my glasses, but at the conference I didn't have them on and so many people commented on how they didn't recognise me. In fact, Jenny and Lucy from Two Crafty Brownies and I spent most of the day looking out for one another after never meeting in real life and it wasn't until Kat managed to round us all up that we managed it - and again the culprit was my lack of eyewear!  So, I either need a new headshot, or to actually wear my glasses at these events!


Lastly - I love doing this!

I had been feeling a bit weird and deflated about the whole online-life-thing in the weeks leading up to the conference. I had been wondering if it was the right place for me to be - when I read that unicorn smoothies were on the menu for the pre-party I must admit I had a bit of a cringe. I'm really not into the unicorn thing, my aesthetic isn't super colourful, and I wondered if that's what people want to see. But you know what - I don't think that's the case at all and even if it is (to borrow a quote from the awesome Allison who I met last year) I love 'doing me' - knowing what I'm not just reinforces what I am, what I'm aiming for and what I want to share. Sometimes that might be the insta-cliche, but if it is - it's because that's whats happening in my life at the moment and I'll continue to be unapologetic about it!

To use another cliche, if people don't like what you do, they're not your people - and I can safely say that in the Blogtacular community, I've definitely found my people!!

(Thank you so much to Amber-Rose Photography for the beautiful photos in this post)


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